【TW】菜鳥求生存 @來飽寶家ba

看完i'm mark寫的「做事&做人」文章←點選可連結，加上最近發生一些芝麻綠豆大的小事突然有感而發，想改改自己曾經寫過的菜鳥求生存…

到公司上班將近兩個月了，從一個什麼都不知道的新人到現在，一直都是默默的低調的做事，卻不知道自己原來不懂得如何做人。

我是一個神經質的人，到一個新的環境或者任識陌生人，交友感應雷達會自動啟動，偏偏雷達又比誰都敏感，只要稍稍不對盤，雷達就會下達指令「這個人不是你的菜，可以不用浪費時間交際」，就這樣變成一個只知道做事卻不懂得做人的人。

很多人覺得我有很多朋友，是個熱絡開朗的女生，卻有更多人不知道我其實很相信「第六感」，導致我不過是被雷達控制的傀儡，懶得去反抗第六感下的指令，應該說連想抗旨的念頭都沒有，總是默默的撤，默默的影藏在人海裡，只願意和電波相投的人交往。

    開始工作後，才知道這是各要不得的致命傷。

    膏可吃，藥可吃，膏藥不可吃；
    脾好醫，氣好醫，脾氣不好醫。

   多想一點，多看一點，
   多聽一點，多做一點，
   多學一點，少說一點，
   關係不一定會好一點。

  ————————————————-中秋事件。
    Choosing a right job is very important to everyone.
    But…sometime it's good career ,not good colleague.
    I can't understand one kind of relationship with colleague .
    I need to develop understanding and skills in dealing with others.

They had a barbecue party in the evening of the Mid-autumn Moon Festival.
They didn't invite me for party.

     Maybe…Because of I got day off that day and My house is far away.
     Maybe…Because of we have known each for about a month.
     We're not closed.

     We have nothing in common.
     I guess that is why they didn't invite me.

     I like other people who love travel and who can talk about diffirent experiense.
     They are much more fun to be with than someone who can only discuss official business.
     I can't get together with mt colleague to do some of other thing we enjoy.
     That is why we couldn't be close.

     I hope we can talk about things that happened during the day and share some happy moments
　together someday.

     I'd like to learn more about it.
     I'd love to try………….